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i didnt know whether to put this in injuries or sex, but since it has to do with a certain part of my body, i guess sex?

anyway, i have a vaginal tearing.... it's not really my fault, but it's so embaressing, and i cant bare to tell anyone. i feel dirty and gross, and i dont want anyone to be near that part of my body. (and my gf keeps wanting to have sex, and i keep having to make shit up!)
also, it hurts, and everytime i touch my self down there i get little to no pleasure, i pretty much just feel irritated all over down there. please tell me what i can possibly do?? it's obviously not just going to magically go away, and i'm so sick of feeling this way. what in the heck should i do?

Well, you already know that your going to have a Dr. because like you said it's not going to go "POOF" and magicially disapear. So I'm guessin' your needin' help with getting' over these feelings you have about a Dr. seeing your most intimate parts. Every woman has to go to the Dr for a pap-smear every year...I hate it every year...but I go through with it because it's my health at risk here and what could be more important than that. When I was 20 I went to a new Dr. and I guess I was more nervous than I thought because I kept trying to lock my knees together so he couldn't do the pap smear and it sucked feeling like there was a 100 watt light bulb down there making it so he could probably see things I didn't know I had! So finally he told me something...something I try to remember every year. "Kristen, If you don't open your legs I can't do this, What do you do for a living?" to which I responded " I work at a convience store" then he said, "ok, when a customer goes in the store do you pay attention to every minor detail of them?" I said, "Um no, I aint got time for that, I do my job and I go home!!" To which he replied "ME TOO." I hope maybe this story didn't bore you toooo much and maybe helped just a little. There no more concerned with what you got down there than a man in the moon so relax! Call the Dr. and get it over with! Good Luck

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