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My name is Angel, and I'm from northern California. I come from a large family where I'm the oldest, and I've lived a long, strange life. I have just about seen it all. In the last couple years, I have kicked a bad drug/alcohol addiction, and I can proudly say that I'm a sober teenage girl. I have a job, I'm a nanny/family assistant, whatever you want to call it. I'm a senior in high school, and I'm genuinely happy. I have a boyfriend, and we've been together for almost a year now. I have a lot of good advice, because I have a lot of life experience. I come from a broken family, I have step-relatives, and half-relatives. I just reunited with my mother after 10 years. My sister is a drug addict of the worst possible kind. I've been in all types of relationships. I guess it's safe to say that I know a little bit about a lot of things, and there's a lot that I know a lot about. Then there's things that I know nothing about, and that's when I ask questions. Thanks for reading my little rant, ask me anything. I check my email everyday, so if you can't reach me on my column, email me. ~Angel xoxo
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I have been single for almost a year now after a three month relationship with the best guy ever (We'll call him Anthony)! Lots of guys have asked me out since then, but only one got me to go out with him (we'll call him Andrew). I always tell them to give me their phone number and then I will call them. I really have no intentions to call. Ususally I toss out the number. When I went out with the one guy (Andrew) a few times, all I could think about is my ex (Anthony), and how not like him the new guy is. I know it is over with my ex (Andrew). How can I get over him?
Like most women, I've been in your position before. Something good that I've heard works really well is just to focus on yourself and make yourself happy. Take yourself for a makeover or buy yourself a really cute outfit. Think; you, you, and more you. The more time you focus on making yourself happy, the less time you have to worry about finding someone to be happy with. Like they always say, you can't take care of someone and be in a relationship until you've taken care of yourself. And don't lose hope, because you will get over Anthony* and you will find someone that will make you just as, if not more happy. Just give it time, give someone a chance, only when you know you're absolutely ready to move on. Good luck, keep me posted. -Angel
(Rating: 5) Thanks, that really means something to me.