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i've been friends with this for like 3 years and we've always been close because we saw each other pretty much every day. now we're both in different classes and we never see each other i just feel like i wanna cry because i just miss her and all that we've been through together and i really just don't wanna lose her as my best friend. has anyone else been in this situation? if you have can you tell me about it. and how can i get my friend back. thank you soo much.
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I hope you are able to see this soon,
but I mean its never good when people make excuses for things you know? Like when people apologize and then make an excuse it totally takes the sincerity out of what she was trying to say. I mean the main thing is, people change, and theres really not a lot you can do about it. I thinks she is just moving on with her life you know? And sadly it might not include you, but dont let her problems become yours, or vise versa. Atleast you've talked to her about it, and she knows a little of how you feel.
But I mean, you cant change people, or the way they think. So dont rely on her for everything.. I'm sorry this is happening for you. :[
Well I hate to say this, but sometimes things like this happen. But you can always meet new people. Dont hesitate to, because you cant be stuck to your best friend forever. You need to try to make new ones too. Its important in order to grow. But dont worry just talk to your friend about it, but dont be selfish. I mean if she doesnt seem like she cares, you need to confront her about it. In my opinion, in situatoins I've been in, its just been friends not accepting that I'm not just theres and that I have other friends. You know? But get together with your bff, and tell her how you feel.
Communication is the key.
(Rating: 5) thanks for the advice but i talked to her about it already and she was like "of course i don't hate you!" and she started getting surprised and telling me she's not even close to hating me and then i was giving her examples of how it felt like it and she made up excuses, i don't know if they were true or not. anyways after we had talked about it still nothings changed. she still never IMs me or talks to me like she used to. do you know what i should do? or whats going on with her?
(P.S. one time she said she was really ed off and i wanted her to tell me what was wrong and she said she would later but she never did, could this be the problem?)