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i am 15 female.
one of my bestfriends just lost her virginity to her boyfriend and she'll be 15 in a couple of days. i know the guy she lost it to and he's very sweet at times. she told me that his penis was big and fat. wow.lol. she told me it hurt like hell and im really curious about if it should even hurt because i heard only when you're nervous it hurts but she claims she wasn't nervous and wanted to loose her virginity to him right away. why, i have no clue? Could anyone please tell me stories about thier first time and every feeling you had.
to be honest i kind of feel pressured to have sex because everyone around me has either lost it at 12,13,14, and 15. But i know who i am and i know that loosing my virginity won't make me a betta person than i am now..but still im curious about sex...please tell me everything i should know!! thanx in advance

Props for you for still keep your virginity in tact. So many ppl, myself incluced lost it because of so much peer pressure. You stay a virgin however long you want and wait till its with someone you love and you know loves you back, when you have that, then sex is a wonderful thing. Now, on to your question about Do you remember your first time. Prime example of peer pressure: (I'm 24 now...was 16 at the time)

My best friend called me August 28th and told me she just lost her virginity and now I should too or I was going to be left out. My other best-friend called me August 29th and told me she lost her virginty too (THEY DIDNT KNOW IT AT THE TIME BUT IT WAS TO THE SAME GUY HAHAHA) anyways, August 31st rolls around and my guy friend came over and he always would pick with me and say lets go in your room...welp he said it, like I knew he would and I said...Let's go! His mouth dropped! Yea we had sex for about 30 seconds before I told him to get off of me. Just felt so wrong. I lost my virginty to someone I didn't even love. Something that you can never get back. And you will ALWAYS remember...that first time.

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