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i dont know what too do....i like my b/f..we've been going out for a year and he's the second b/f i've ever had...i like him and all but i think its time to see other people...but i dont know how to tell him...i'm dont want to hurt him...is there a way for me to tell him without hurting him? And now i'm starting to think i like my old friend from my other school.... but he has a g/f but when we talked to each other today it felt like we were kids again and liked each other...please help me i dont know what too do..how can i make it so that i wont make myself feel bad or my b/f...=/

There's not going to be a "EASY" way out of this. Break-up's are just horrible for everyone involved. If they were easy, I'm sure there's alot of ppl that would be filing for a divorce right now instead of staying UN-happily married. Think long and hard about your decesion before you act on it. Imagine your life without your current boyfriend in it. No phone calls, no Hey, whatcha doin? NOTHING. Not saying he would never speak to you again but 1 year is a long time and it's better to prepare yourself in knowing that quite possibly he'll be so hurt he want won't to talk to you again. Now, I'm not trying to play pitty-party here.. In no way should you stay with him if you don't want to. Ultimatley it's your life and your happiness were talking about here. You do what is going to make you happy. You deserve that-everyone does. Maybe write him a letter, that seems to be best as to where maybe if you said it in person, you wouldn't get up the nerve to say everything you wanted to say. Don't let him know you want another guy. That just makes the break-up hurt even worser knowing the woman you love is with some other dude. Just tell him you feel like you need some space at this point in your life and that you'll always love and care for him and hope that yall two can still be friends?
-Hope this helps.

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