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I was goin to bed downstairs with my parents room being upstairs, when i finally was in bed i heard a scream, so i got up wondering what was wrong then i heard all these sex noises moans and such, i was freaked out, wouldn't you be? so i called my 19 year old sister and she came home to comfort me. I couldn't sleep even after they had stopped, it was stuck in my head.
The next morning i was discusted, but still decided to talk about them about it, all they said was "we are in love you should be happy that we are still together in so in love" i go "i'm not...it's discusting to me!" they just said "you should get over it" now i can't get the noises out of my mind and i keep picturing them doing it i know they are in love but i still think it is really discusting i mean blowjobs, kissing, naked! that is what is stuck...please help me to be relived of that! (link)
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I totally understand you feeling upset and uncomfortable! I think it's very inappropriate for children to hear their parents having sex.
It's great that your parents love eachother, but if you hear them again you need to explain to them that you're glad they love eachother, but that it makes you very uncomfortable and think it's inappriopriate for you to hear them having sex.
It's obvious ur upset about it because it keeps replaying in your head! To get it out of your mind just stay occupied-hang out with friends, exercise, etc. Bad thoughts will resurface but just try to block them out, and if you get really upset call your sister or a friend. In time I promise the thoughts will come less, and soon go away.
If your parents continue and wont stop no matter what you say, you need to talk to your sister about maybe going to a family councelor with them.
P.S for those who said you need to grow up, are totally wrong. It's completely understandable to be upset-and you are not overreacting.
Hope I helped =]
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Thanks, a lot. That really helped me =>. I'm glad you don't think im over reacting too.
--Milly
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