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Q: My boyfriend cheated on me one week after we got together. Now I have taken him back (about 2 weeks after he cheated on me). All of my friends thinks it's a misstake but I believe in second chaces and I like this guy...All advicenators out there do you believe in the term- "once a cheater, always a cheater"??
Was it a big misstake to take him back, should I dump him for what he did to me?
I believe that "once a cheater, always a cheater" because it's always with him now that he has cheated on a girlfriend, duh.

He won't change his ways, boys just don't do that when they "like" someone. I know that from experience.

They tell you they'll change, then if you're still with them in a couple months, "I'm not changing for anyone, if you don't like me the way that I am, then that's your problem".

So, i would say dump him, especially since he cheated on you after A WEEK, it shows no respect.

I don't know if I'm ready to dump him yet, but I'll keep it in mind! Thanks =)

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