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Ok so heres whats happening,
a little while ago my uncle lost his job, went in to depression and said he was going to commit sucide and then my friend started to slit her wrists and i'm getting scared. It's makeing me sad and i don't want to have to deal with her of even be around her cause i can't take the stress but at the same time i don't want to loose my friends.
If i don't hang out with them they will tell me i'm becomeing antisocial and thats not what i want i'm only 14 and this is way to much for me to deal with please dose anyone know what i should do? Or a way to relax

thanks,
becca

Okay .. I'm sorry your in this situation.
But here is one thing you are only fourteen, dont let your uncle's problem affect you, dont let anyones problem affect you.
I know you care a great great deal about them, but the fact that their problems are making their way into your life, is stressing you out.
You need to find a way to help them, yet staying completely out of it. You know?
Try offering to be someone they can talk to,
or try talking to a counsular about what you can do about these types of people.
I mean depression is a seroius thing.

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(Rating: 5) thankyou so much
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