kristen22's

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Ok so im trying to work things out with my bf. we have been together almost 2 years and i am now pregnant even though i was told i couldnt have kids. We have set a date for marriage but there is a problem. He will not save any money and we are stuck renting a basement apartment at a friends house and im not bringing a baby into a basement. So, i suggested that we move down south with family where we could afford the cost of living. He refuses because all of his friends are here. So since he doesnt want to come with me, should i just leave him and go by myself??? I have no family or friends here and both of our families are down south. I think he is being selfish to want me and our baby to stay in a basement just because of his friends.

No you are not selfish at all for wanting better for your new child. Don't bring a child into that environment! Tell him simply, "You can either start saving asap to get us out of this disgusting basement or me and YOUR CHILD are leaving. I will not bring my baby into a damn basement full of mold for her/him to get sick!"

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