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I'm a raw and living foodest. For those of you who are unfamiliar with what that is I only eat foods that have not been cooked. I do this because it maintains all of the nutrients and enzymes intact and is much healthier. I'm not here to try to convert anyone. I think you can reach maximum health by eating all kinds of foods fixed all kinds of ways. This is simply my life choice. What I'm here to do is help educate people as to what is happening to thier food. Did you know that the pharmaceutical companies have lobbied to have a law voted on called "Codex Aimentarius" that will take away our freedom to take suppliments? It has already been implemented in Europe. Of course it is still ok for them to put steroids, antiboitics and harmones in our foods. Have you wondered why there is a great influx of people acting aggressively and out of character? I'm here to help guide you through this mess. If you want to eat meat...eat meat...just get chemically free meat. I'm here to help you understand what is happening to you.
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Okay I was with the guy for over a year. On and off. And this is our third try. I'm pretty sure he liked some other chick.. but couldn't get with her and then asked me out. I feel stupid and yeah.. I don't know what to do.. because he doesn't really call me. He talks to his other friends on the phone and puts me on hold. :\ And he doesn't really show or tell me that he likes me or that he's happy with me.. or anything like that. So i really don't know what's going on. It's just.. "BYE" and I feel like he likes the other girl...and not me anymore. I don't know what to do because I'm not really sure I'm right.
I know this isn't what you want to hear, but I think you should break it off w/him. He isn't treating w/respect and you deserve better than this. I'm not telling you to close yourself off completely w/him, but he, right now, is taking you for granted. You have to take a stand on how you want to be treated in a relationship or a guy will always do what he's always done. He will think it is acceptable to you. If you break it off w/him it will be a total shock to him. He thinks he has you where he wants you that you are his lap dog, so to speak. There's a well known secret that women don't want to follow when they like someone and that's MEN LIKE TO DO THE CHASING. Men like the thrill of the chase and the tougher it is for them the more they want it. That is probably what is going on more w/this other girl than a true emotional attachment. He can't have her so of course he wants her. So, breaking up w/him may give him a little of that interaction w/you. Start seeing other guys right away. You never know, you may find someone who will admire you and treat you the way you deserve. Dating is the arena where you go out w/people to determine what kind of person you can life the rest of your life with. You need to get out there and see what else is out there for you. In your present situation you are setting yourself up to being accepting of this type of behavior for a lifetime. You have to ask yourself; "Do I want my partner in life to treat me this way?" If your present boyfriend truly wants to be w/you, let him chase you for a little. Let him put forth a little effort in getting you back. If he has to work for you, I've found, he appreciates you more and is thankful for having you in his life. This is what you deserve. I don't suggest talking to him first because that may end up w/him doing that to you and wouldn't you rather be the one in control? It rarely happens, when they break up w/you, that they see what they are loosing. If they do the breaking up they think, "thank God I'm out of that. I should have done that a long time ago." But if you do it they go, "what just happened. I thought we had something....". I know this is a tough situation to be in and I feel for you. I've been there too. Whatever you choose to do I hope that all your dreams come true.
Namaste,
LULABELLE
(Rating: 5) Thanks.
There's too many stuff between us.
He is obviously not interested in me.
So.. the single life for meeee