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Aww, i went through the SAME exact thing, only, i accually had sex.
I had the fear of, oh man, what if it turns out positive, what will i do? Why would this happen to me? Believe me, it's worth it if you are really worried, because then, you'll know for sure.
Since he ejaculated after you guys stopped, if it wasn't in the general area "down there" or if it wasn't on his hands/your hands and got touched down there, you should be fine.
I was also the same way, it's all in your head, i thought i was getting fatter too, but i wasn't. Plus, remember, if you are stressing about this, stress causes your period to be late. That could also be the reason your period hasn't come.
I'm accually not quite sure if this means your not a virgin anymore, because i mean, by any means if it was in you, that means you've had sex. So, i guess you can say your not a virgin anymore.
As for the pain, if you're wanting to have sex again, have him "lube you up" if you don't have lube, he can always just like, lick his hand and rub around the area. Also, stay protected and always use a condom!
Hope i helped!
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