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Ok I always use the term "i like him" because it seems at my age i can't really love someone (i'm 15 and a girl) but i've 'liked' this guy for almost a year and a half. Everytime i see him i feel lots of butterflies in my stomach, i find myself stareing at him and when he looks at me i look away. i also find him looking at me. but i also find myself constantly talking about him and when i talk about him muy friends are always like wow you smile a lot when you talk about him, and when i'm not talking about him i'm thinking about him. i feel a little over liking him for my age. I don't go out with him but i've turned down dates because i can't imagine going out with anyone else. I either need some serious help or could i be in 'love'?!?!
kinda scary to think about.

Its scary on how much I was just like you at 15. I also don't like to say "I love him" because that is a young age to know about love. There was a guy who I had a huge crush on (( he was a grade older )). I liked him pretty much all throughout high school. I got butterflies and got incredibly nervous when I saw him & when he looked I'd look away, just like you. I was always thinking about him but the thing is, is that I NEVER talked about him. None of my friends knew and the only person who knew was him, I'm pretty sure. I was never really interested in anyone else and kind of avoided the guys who had an interest in me because I couldn't see myself with anyone else.

But I kind of blew it. I never talked to him. He graduated last year and I graduated this past thursday so I guess its kind of time to move on. I couldn't really help you with the whole love & like thing but I pretty much know exactly how you feel. I would say you probably just have a realllllly big crush on him.

But please, please, please do this: talk to him. If you've never talked to him, find someway to introduce yourself to him. Ask him if he wants to hang out. You'll regret it if you never do. And I would also know how that feels.
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(Rating: 5) Your situation sounds excatly like mine he'sa grade older than me and i think i'll talk to him more. We're kind of friends but when e talk it's just like hi how are you and then we get on a topic and we talk for like 5 mins and thats the end of it. But now i think i should talk tohim more! Thanks!
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