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I wasn't sure where to put this, because it's kind of a weird question. Bear it with me.
I'm a thirteen year-old girl and I'm bringing one of my friends with me on a three week long trip to Europe. She's very nice, low-key, and low-maintinence (sp?), so I'm not really worried about getting sick of her. My problem is, I'm afraid SHE'LL get sick of ME. I guess I tend to complain a lot, and stuff like that, but I really want to get better about that. Does anyone have any tips for becoming more self-aware and complaining less?
Relax and don't worry so much about it. I find the more I worry about something the more it will happen. So don't even think of it as a possibility. Just picture your vacation as being everything you want it to be and don't even let the negative thoughts come into your mind because if you do you can manifest these thoughts and then they will be true. Keep the picture of the vacation you want in your mind at all times and it will be as you want it to be. Your friend already loves you and loves being with you or she wouldn't be going with you. Because you two are different makes it that you two are compatable. Have fun and know you will have the best vacation ever.
Here's a site that will help you with possitive reinforcement:
http://psych.athabascau.ca/html/prtut/reinpair.htm
Namaste!
LULABELLE
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