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My boyfriend and me are on sports.. He’s on baseball and I'm on softball and on Friday after my game we are going to take a shower together in the girls locker room not having sex just taking a shower together… and I was wondering what I should do because I’m scared he’ll be the first boy who ever saw my body… EVER!!


my questions are..

-what if his mom is looking for him(his mom works in the school)
-what should i do with him in there
-what if my coach comes in


I’m 15 and we’ve been going out for a while now.. About 6 months and I just need to know what to do.. Thank!!

Well to answer your specific questions in order:

-How likely is it that his Mum is going to come looking for him. Firstly, he's 15. It's unlikely she'd just decide to walk in on him in the shower. Secondly, even if she did start looking for him while he was potentially nude, whouldn't she start in the guys locker room?

-What should you do with him in there? Do you not have a pretty good idea all ready? I mean, you'll both be naked and possibly soapy and you'll probably both be turned on like hell (if not there's something a-wrong with the pair of you). Therefore I think you need to ponder exactly what you are hoping is going to happen. You said you weren't going to have sex which is cool and all but pretty hard to stick to when you're caressing someones wet body. Seriously, are you sure you want to go through with this? (I'm not saying you shouldn't if you really think you ARE ready, but only that you may end up doing something you don't want to do yet in the heat of the moment). And one more thing- it's up to you to dictate how far it goes. Get naked in front of yout boyfriend and watch his good intentions fly out the window (although I'm sure he's a nice guy).

-If your coach comes in, you're screwed. I mean, your underage and NO-ONE will belived you weren't planning on having sex. You'll both be in deep doo-doo, seriously.

So basically, just think carefully about it. It can be a seriously sexy thing to do and the thrill will probably add to that, but just make sure you're ready for everything that might happen. How far would you go with him if you WEREN'T showering together? Don't go further than that. No matter how soapy he is.

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