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hello :)My name is allie and i'm here to help everyone with their problems.
I am a 15 year old girl so i can relate to most problems having to do with that kind of stuff & i love helping people. i hope to be a guidance counselor or something close to that profession when i grow up. i like most stuff that 15 year olds like and thats basically everything you need to know about me :)!
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18 years old/female.
K, this is the situation I am in. There is this guy that I work with that I simply can not get out of my heart. This is the 4th year I have worked with him, and for all of that time I have found myself attracted to him in a big way. At first I just felt like it was an adolesant crush, I mean I was 14 afterall and crushes are not a rare thing at that age, they come and go. But this one came and has yet to go. Anyways, quicknotes version- He is 2 years older then me and impossible to read! I am oblivious to flirting-incoming or outgoing- and don't know how to tell if he has feelings for me too. Most of the time I really just wish I could forget about him, but something won't let me. It's not like an obsessive kind of thing where I think about him 24/7, he just seems to find his way into my mind in the quiet moments or when I'm admiring a beautiful sunset or watching waves break on the ocean I wish he were there to see it. But yet thinking of him often makes me sad, and sometimes even angry or frusterated. If I'm not even sure how I feel about him how am I supposed to tell how he feels about me? And how can I tell how he feels about me? I'm sorry this is so long I can just use all the help I can get. If LOTS of people could all give me their opinions and advice it would me great!!! I will rate you.
well if your good friends then start out by asking him if he'll go with you to like.. get your mom a present at the mall or something.. something where he wont suspect that you like him a lot and go from there.. if you have a really good time there you'll know hes the one for you and maybe you can ask him if he wants to do that again sometime.. in my opinion thats the best idea because then you can see him again and he'll think its casual.. just make sure you look casual yet really pretty so he thinks its just friends going to the mall together
idk i tried my best and this is a tricky situation but seriously GOOD LUCK :)!
(Rating: 5) Thanks, that's a really good idea. The only prob is we're not good friends. Other then work stuff I never get to see him.