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I'm a raw and living foodest. For those of you who are unfamiliar with what that is I only eat foods that have not been cooked. I do this because it maintains all of the nutrients and enzymes intact and is much healthier. I'm not here to try to convert anyone. I think you can reach maximum health by eating all kinds of foods fixed all kinds of ways. This is simply my life choice. What I'm here to do is help educate people as to what is happening to thier food. Did you know that the pharmaceutical companies have lobbied to have a law voted on called "Codex Aimentarius" that will take away our freedom to take suppliments? It has already been implemented in Europe. Of course it is still ok for them to put steroids, antiboitics and harmones in our foods. Have you wondered why there is a great influx of people acting aggressively and out of character? I'm here to help guide you through this mess. If you want to eat meat...eat meat...just get chemically free meat. I'm here to help you understand what is happening to you.
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Well, today I asked my bf if he'd told everyone about us (we've been together 6 months today) and he said he had except one girl. When I further probed him about why, I found out she was a girl he had asked out (but she refused) before we got together. Well, he won't tell her because her parents seem to think he's a suitable candidate for her to marry and he thinks they would be hurt if they found out he was in love with someone else. I feel really hurt by this, because even though I know he meant well not to hurt them, I feel this shows he has feelings for her still, or at least is trying to save has as "Backup" in case things don't work out.
Am I justified in feeling this way ? Or could he have genuinely wanted to spare their feelings? Or does this mean there are some genuine problems in our relationship?
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So, let me get this straight, it's NOT ok to hurt the parents of some girl that has turned him down for a date, yet, it IS ok to hurt you, his girlfriend, the person he loves? Something's VERY wrong with this picture. Does his parents at least know about you? And why is there such a concern for the parents of someone who he is not dating? There are some very BIG questions here that your boyfriend needs to answer. He's still not being completely honest with you about something. I can understand why you feel the way you do. His reasons for his behavior don't make sense. He has a lot of explaining to do and you shouldn't feel badly for confronting him on these issues. He isn't considering your feelings here, so you shouldn't worry about his. But before you do confront him you have to prepare yourself to hear something you may not want to know. I wish you all the luck!
Namaste!
LULABELLE
(Rating: 5) Thanks a lot