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Q: Everyone tells me through all the questions i ask how to be more confident! i dont no how.. like i cant build up my self esteem by just saying posotive thing to myself and anytime i receive a compliment i throw it away and dont take it..idk what i can do to be more confident or talk more confident becasue i hate rejection... is there anything i can talk about topics maybe or what i can do to become more confident in myself without self talk becasue that doesnt really work...

Hmm, i have the same exact problem as you. Maybe you need someone to reassure you how nice; "good-looking" ect. you are, all things like that, though i have someone like that, it still doesn't help me. I prolly shouldn't of answered this question because i have no real answer, being i'm in the same situation. But i can say you might just wanna find your "inner-self" and realize the good things about you, it may make you feel better about youself. Sorry if i wans't much help. :/

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haha no its all good its always cool to no im not the only one thanx!

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