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Q: I'm 16, female, and straight. I have a few really close female mates, and occasionally I get really strong feelings for them. Like the other night, I was on the sofa with one of my closest friends, watching a film and we were just holding hands like we often do, and she was curled up with her head on my lap, and I had these really weird feelings, like I wanted to be closer to her, and have a really special relationship with her... I didn't say anything coz I thought she'd think I was really weird. But then the next day, she said to me "you know when we were on the sofa yesterday, I had this really odd feeling, like I wanted to kiss you or something," and I was like "thats so strange, I felt the same.."
We both have boyfriends who we love, and are straight. So whats with these feelings?
Yeah, i was thinking the same as the girl below me, maybe since you guys are soo close you've became you know, closer than you maybe wanted? You could be bisexual. Or maybe it's just something about her you just like. Don't worry about it. Even if you are bisexual or not, it's normal, many people are. It's nothing too out of the ordinary.

Thanks, thats reassuring to know.

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I'm majoring in Interactive Digital Design.
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