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Hey I am really jealous of my best friend and recently I have become quite depressed about it and cutting out bits of skin and crying on a night. Her we go:

*We have similar personalities but its like whatever she says goes more than what I say

* She has a big immaculate house, a perfect family and generous parents and she doesn't act a bit spoilt at all but shes always complaing about her life to us.

* she can afford to go to posh gyms and restaurants and buy whatever she wants

* Shes really pretty, even though people say Im prettier, and she looks gorgeous in the simplest of outfits because she's born with a perfect tan and the perfect body.

* its all happening for her: boyfriend( that i fancy n could have had but was too shy to go for it wen she started likin him), partys, money, moving house, more friends

* shes buying all the clothes i want but she doesnt know it and i get depressed because people will think im copying her.

i could go on forever. Everyone likes me just as much as her its just its like she has more to offer and i know i seem like a depressed teenager but i need something to overcome this jealousy before i snap. luv rach xxx

Rach,

You shouldnt be naming all the things your friend may seem has "better" than you. Stop comparing yourself to her. You even said people think youre prettier, they like you both the same.. and im sure you have alot of things going for you. You shouldnt be depressed though, im sure people feel jealous of you too. Everyone does at one time or another. Also, you probaly already know this but someone is always going to be richer, prettier, smarter, sportier.. you name it. Dont let that get to you. Be happy with what you have, be grateful, be you. Oh and you said that people think you copy her, screw them! You shouldnt care what people say or think ;)
hope i helped.
-beckss

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(Rating: 5) thanku :-)

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