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I have a little sister..and she thinks she's in love. Everytime she gets a new crush, she goes "goo-goo-ga-ga" over him..and then he breaks her heart, and she goes crying to me. She then states how much she loves him even though she only went out with him for a week! She cries and she cries about how much she loves this boy..until she finds another crush another week later! She then states that she is in love with this new boy! She's not just saying it..She actually means it. She really thinks she's in love..and she's only 11!!! It's so frustrating and annoying because when I tell her she's not in love---she gets soo mad. What should I do? This act is getting annoying..she's not in love.
PS she once "loved" a guy she never met over the internet.
I think she's growing up, you know? We all go through different stages and I think she's just going through a boy-crazy stage. You should tell her that love is about being with one person, and loving them more than anyone else. If she says that's how she feels now about her current crush, tell her that's what she said before and explain to her what you think love is. Also tell her that loving someone over the internet isn't safe and she's too young to be doing that when she doesn't even know the boy. Talk to your parents if she goes online and talks to boys she doesn't know and then tries to tell them she loves them, because that is really unsafe.
She also may be saying she's in love because she wants attention and wants to show people she knows what having a boyfriend is like. If she doesn't accept what you tell her, then every time she tries to tell you about one of her crushes, don't even listen. Just let her talk and hopefully soon she'll understand that she doesn't love the boys that she thinks she does now.
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