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I am 13 and have never had a bf. All of my friends laugh at me behind my back. I found this out after we had a school dance a couple of nights ago. I danced with this one senior who is kind of on the geeky side, but he's a really nice guy. He's also the only guy who asked me to dance, all the guys in my class don't really like me. Well I found out from one of my nicer friends that all these girls that I thought were my friends were laughing at me at the dance and saying that Lee (the guy I danced with ) was the only guy I could get. They were also laughing and saying what a geek I was for never having a bf.
I was really hurt and felt like crying. Since when is it a crime to have never had a bf? I know girls a lot older than me that arent dating.
What should I do?
I know that it feels awful rignt now. You feel betrayed by these people and rightly so. Something I've seen time and time again is...the people that think they are sooo coool while they are in school are not all that when they get out into the real world. Oh, and something else? I'd hang out with that geeky senior. It's the geeks who run this world, look at Bill Gates! Can't get much geekier than that or richer.
Namaste!
LULABELLE
(Rating: 5) thanks for being so nice! It really helps!