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I'm a raw and living foodest. For those of you who are unfamiliar with what that is I only eat foods that have not been cooked. I do this because it maintains all of the nutrients and enzymes intact and is much healthier. I'm not here to try to convert anyone. I think you can reach maximum health by eating all kinds of foods fixed all kinds of ways. This is simply my life choice. What I'm here to do is help educate people as to what is happening to thier food. Did you know that the pharmaceutical companies have lobbied to have a law voted on called "Codex Aimentarius" that will take away our freedom to take suppliments? It has already been implemented in Europe. Of course it is still ok for them to put steroids, antiboitics and harmones in our foods. Have you wondered why there is a great influx of people acting aggressively and out of character? I'm here to help guide you through this mess. If you want to eat meat...eat meat...just get chemically free meat. I'm here to help you understand what is happening to you.
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Alright so me and my bf broke up 2 days ago but we are still basicly together nd tryin to fix things... the problem is I dont really want to i dont think. I dont know how I would be able to just end it with him without telling him straight out. Im not good with that sort of thing
People always tell me how i can do so much better and that he is just an ass and all this stuff But i dont think I can do better..
What should I do?
If your line of thinking is that you are going to stay with him because you don't think you can do any better then my vote is for a brake up. That is no reason to stay with someone. It's a shame that people have to use the thought process of someone being better or worse than someone else. I wish people would use more constructive statements like...the relationship between the two of you doesn't seem healthy, he dominates your life, he doesn't seem to have much ambition, etc. What I'll say to you is this...there is nothing wrong with ending a relationship no matter how long you've been in it if it is in your best interest to do so. You tried it and it didn't work with this guy. That's ok, oh, and that's what dating is all about. You date different people until you come upon the one person that resonates with you. There will always be disagreement in relationships, but there is someone out there that you will just seem to fit...and you'll know what I mean when you find them. So, if you have to be up front with him, you have to be up front. Have friends with you in case he gets upset and you have someone around to help you if you need it. What he isn't worth is the cost of your happiness and joy of life.
Namaste!
LULABELLE
(Rating: 5) thank you so much.. it helped alot when you said +the point of dating is to date around until you find the person you fit with+ or something like that