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My best friend asked me out last Friday, and I said no [being the idiot that I am] because I thought he was joking [yeah, I know, it's stupid, but he's done it before]. I've liked him for atleast 4 years, and I just missed my chance, which makes me really sad. My other best friend asked him today at school if he was going to ask me back out. He said no, but he still like me.
So basically, he liked me, asked me out, I said no, and now he's not going to ask me out anytime soon. I feel like such an idiot! I've been gushing over him for FOUR years, and he said he`s not going to ask me out again [that meaning that he isn't going to go out with me now. I'd ask him out but he'd say no, most likely.]
If you were put in the same situation, what would you do? What should I do about this situation? Thank you so much in advance.
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If I was in this situation I'd talk to him about it. Tell him what you said to me, about how you feel about him and how much you like him. He's probably afraid to ask you out again because you said no to him (yeah, guys get scared just like girls ha). Tell him that you thought he was joking (because he has before) but that you'd still like to go out with him. And since you know he still likes you then it would be good to tell him how you feel.
I know you feel like he's going to say no if you ask him out again but just try. You'll never know until you actually ask, and what if you never tell him how you feel? What if something happens before you tell him (like him asking out another girl)? Another good thing is that you've known him for four years so you shouldn't be too uncomfortable with him.
If he still says no, then just be glad you asked anyway. I know this probably isn't the answer you want to here, but if he says no, then just accept it. You don't want to push him into anything, because he'll know when he wants to be with you again or not.
-mystical_breeze
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P.S. Aw thanks! And by the way, sorry this was kind of long.
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