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Well last night my mom and I had a fight and she said well if your dads so great go live with them so I started to cry, I sent a text message to my dad and step mom and I was like well if it comes down to it can I live with you. They havent replied and so I sent them another one about a hour ago. Still no answer my mom has been a real bitch lately and I dont know what to do somtimes I want to go live with my dad but I really dont like my mom just its my friends and the skit we are doing for the variety show that makes me want to stay. Please help.
♥ Tiff
I know how it is...I've been there myself. Something you may want to keep in mind in the interest of getting along with your mother is she may have a lot of stress factors going on that she is not be sharing with you. Sometimes parents try to protect their children from things because they don't want to stress their children out. It sounds to me like something stressful is going on in some aspect of her life, such as, work, relationships, friendships, the PTA...It sounds to me like you may have said or done something that lead her to believe that you don't appreciate the things she does do for you. It doesn't mean it is true. It just means that she's not thinking clearly and she isn’t seeing your appreciation. That is evident in her statement that you could go ahead and live with your father if you wanted. I don't think she really meant that. She's exasperated. She needs some patience from you for some reason right now. Take a step back and look at what is going on for your mother. Be open to what is going on for her right now. Maybe there is something you can do to help her. This would greatly help the two of you in your communication. It will also soften her up to whatever it is you need from her.
Namaste!
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