My grandpa died about one year ago, and the only time I cried about it is when i recieved the news on the phone. Not even at the funeral/wake..=\. But it's sort of hard to believe that I didn't because I used to have a diary and i wrote about how close i was to him and how much i loved him and such. Now for the past few days, all I have been doing is crying about him because I miss him so much. I mean i can't even watch certain shows on tv anymore because we used to watch them together, and songs that sing about relationships make me cry. My question is, why am i just starting to miss him and crying now? What should I do? This is the first time i've cried about him being gone.
Thanks for any advice. And btw, I dont have any other grandparents, and my parents and i arent that close so i cant get help from them. Thanks.
I went through the same thing when my grandma died. I didn't cry until like 3 months after and I've been crying ever since. You didn't cry at the wake or funeral because it probably didn't set in that he wasn't coming back. Now you are feeling bad and missing him because it's been along time and you realize how much you really do miss him. Mourning is good, just not excessive amounts. If you cry like everyday, I would go to a school counselor since you aren't close with your parents or talk to a friend or something.
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