In a nutshell, I hate my stepdad. Well, HATE is a strong word, so let's just say I highly dislike him.
My mother met him about 5 years ago, and they got married a year later. He was nice to me and my sister during their courtship, but since he married my mom he's turned into an ass. Well he's really mean to me and my sister. Neither of us has a bf so he says to our faces that were lesbians. When I had my 25th birthday he told me in front of my mother that I must be a dyke because all of his daughters were married by my age. He always compares us to his daughters who are all married.
My sister has a weight problem and he calls her fat and a slug. He convinced my mother to kick her out of the house while she was still in college. My sister is a good person, she's quiet and studies to get good grades but he tells my mom that she deserves to be kicked out on the street. I think he wants my mom all to himself. He even told me once that he was "sick of me always coming around". I live in another town and maybe visit my mom once every two weeks, so I don't know what he's talking about. On Xmas day when I went to visit them I even heard him yelling at my mom! He was calling her a "stubborn woman" because she asked him to help cut up the turkey. Every one else can see this guys a jerk except for my mother.What can I do? I've already told my mom that she shouldnt have married him but she's in love with him and doesnt want to listen.
I'll rate 5s!
Man, you're probably gonna hate my answer. There doesn't sound like there is a lot you can do.
If your mother has strong feelings for him there is little you can do to change that, and attempting to do so might drive a wedge between the two of you, especially if she know's you dislike your step-father.
Having said that, me and my step-dad aren't exactly the best of pals, and him being offensive to you has to stop. If he's rude to your face, give as good as you get. You're a grown woman and nobody has the right to push you around, and the same goes for your sister. There's no point in trying to convince your mother of his short-comings, but don't let your love for her stop you defending yourself. Step-father or not, you DO NOT have to take any of his crap. The guy sounds like a dickweed.
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thanks!
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