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I'm a raw and living foodest. For those of you who are unfamiliar with what that is I only eat foods that have not been cooked. I do this because it maintains all of the nutrients and enzymes intact and is much healthier. I'm not here to try to convert anyone. I think you can reach maximum health by eating all kinds of foods fixed all kinds of ways. This is simply my life choice. What I'm here to do is help educate people as to what is happening to thier food. Did you know that the pharmaceutical companies have lobbied to have a law voted on called "Codex Aimentarius" that will take away our freedom to take suppliments? It has already been implemented in Europe. Of course it is still ok for them to put steroids, antiboitics and harmones in our foods. Have you wondered why there is a great influx of people acting aggressively and out of character? I'm here to help guide you through this mess. If you want to eat meat...eat meat...just get chemically free meat. I'm here to help you understand what is happening to you.
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I was just wondering what everyone thinks about love? I don't believe in love and was just wondering what everyone else thought about it.
Of course there is such a thing as love. You experience it on a daily basis. You love your friends, mother, father, grandmother/father, ice cream, chocolate...your dog/cat, etc. Love is all around you, open yourself up to it. You are even made up of love just as we all are. What I think you are referring to is the popularized "in love", scenerio. That is ABSOLUTELY possible as well. The problem I'm seeing these days is that this is unfortunately not a probable scenerio. What people most often do (and I've done this myself) is mistake a chemical reaction to someone's pheromones as being "in love". Now, granted, this strong chemical reaction to someone can certainly lead to a true "in love" situation, but most often does not and this is because people confuse this chemical reaction as being "in love". This is why you hear so many people say when they break up with someone that the person they are breaking up with is nothing like who or what they thought they were. This initial chemical reaction is so strong that people often overlook potential problems and fantasize these potential problems aren't real. I call this stage "in lust". What happens in this stage is the object of your desire is on your mind constantly. All you can think of, smell, and see. People aren't staying together much anymore so it's difficult to see how a true "in love" couple looks. Actual true love comes in after the strong chemical reaction of pheromones has settled (it's still there, it's just not on full alert). It's not as strong anymore because other life issues come creaping back into existance. While in the lust/chemical state people block out all that is going on around them and go into a hyper-focus state. In this mode all you can see is the other person. Then life starts envading. In other words life just starts to get in the way. One of the many ways love developes is how each person observes how the other meets lifes challenges. This is the part where people need to learn to work on being together. The part where life hits you between the teeth. True love is loyal, trusting and respectful (to simplify it a lot). There is giving, taking and compromising. It's taking responsibilty for who you are and in turn you are able to share and open up the most precious gift there is (you)and share (Who you are) with another person. To feel safe with this is a very difficult thing. Very, very few people ever acheive this level. Most people are maintaining a part of themselves hidden for fear of being hurt. People fear that if they reveal themselves then they will open themselves up to being hurt by someone else. That can't happen unless you let it (I mean this in the emotional sense). You can do this without feeling the pain, but this is a another complicated issue that would take me hours to touch on. From the sound of your question, you haven't had that chemical reaction to anyone as of yet. Not to worry, it will happen all in good time. You will probably meet and become close with a few people before you discover the one person that will turn your world on end. It is my wish for you that it will be a good end too. This issue is not so easily explained in an advise colomn like this. I hope that I've given you enough information to enable you to figure some of it out for yourself. You see, part of the lesson of love is for you to experience it and learn from it at your own pace and level. Good luck!
Namaste,
LULABELLE
(Rating: 5) Thanks a bunch. you've helped me see a different perspective on it.