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Well my name is Liza. I am 14 years old and I love to give people advice. I currently go to Oakivlle High School.I am a cheerleader there.I am new here at Advicenators. I am about 5'5. I'm athletic. I am very outgoing, I am very sociable and I am very lovable if you get to know me. I love to shop. I am a kind, gentle person. I love to play sports and everything that has something to do with somehting athletic. I guess you can say that I'm smart but like book smart not like common sense smart because I really lack common sense and any of my friends can tell you that. If ever you ask a question about me the first they would say is "she is such a blonde"(I've been told this). It is sad but its who I am and I like being me. The thing that I really don't like is the fact that other people try to be something that there not. Some want to be something that they want to be but the thing that they don't realize is that they are unique in there own way and thats what makes them special. They try there hardest to be something other than them but the only thing that they need to do is to be true to themselves and they would live there lives as wonderful because they will never have the feeling of trying to be something and fail. They are already champions in there heart but they just need to search deep inside. Thats what I did and here I am giving people advice and living my life in the fullest and being the best I can.Well since this is an advice column ask me a question and I will try to answer it as best as I could possibly give you since I'm practically failing English.Ask and I will answer. Some people call me as there therapists. Its awkward when they me that it feels like I'm a freak or something but yeah. I am here to give advice and thats what I will do. Just ask and I will try and answer it the best as my brain can think of something brilliant to say!!
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Well I have a best friend and we haven't spent time together totally for 3 to 4 weeks. She and I have been busy as heck. Twice she spent the night over this over girl's house. She calls her, her best friend too. But she's told me that I’m number one. Well now I’m starting to feel left out because I also know her other best friend and we get along well. I just can't stand them being together hanging out and I’m never invited like when the other girl invited my best friend, Kay, to sleep over. She doesn't even call me that much anymore. I remember like in the beginning of the year that the other girl, eliz, was not in the picture and now she's treating her as she's been there for her like I have and SHE HASN'T! She's now including her in everything of her thoughts. I feel like if she had to choose between me and eliz needed to be helped up off the edge of a cliff she would grab me, but after talk about eliz the whole time. We also go to different schools like I go to high school and they go to junior high. Kay even cried when eliz needed to talk to me and didn't want to talk to Kay secretly. I was pissed on how she cried over her and I thought would she do the same to me. When they recently had a sleepover last Friday and she was showing me pictures of the sleepover and she had a picture of them together with the word "best friends" at the top. I felt my heart break that moment. That sleepover was for a "project" which they just played around the whole time though. I barely see Kay anymore and we live so close like 5 seconds from each other's house that I can see in her windows. But she sees eliz 24/7 though. She's also about to go on a cruise for a week and I won't see her than. I wanted to spend this time with her. I'm wondering if she even cares about me anymore really. My friendship love for her is fading. She's even keeping secrets from me like letting that eliz girl know before me and she promised she wouldn't do that in the beginning. She's acting different too and I don't like it. She tells me I’m totally #1, but the way she's been equaling me to this eliz chick that thought sounds more and more false to me. I've known her for 3 years and she's known her for 1 and a half! She treats me like she would treat her. I'm not included on any that they do and I hate that. Also my other friends when we get together I try to get Kay to go quick. She didn’t even attempt to have me come along. I don’t know what to do about this. Am I being unreasonable or totally fair and have a right to be a little ticked? Please help!!
Actually I'm in the same situation right now. If she is treating you like that she really isn't your best friend. Best Friends stick with each other no matter what. So I do think that you have the right to be pissed. You have other friends that you can talk too and that care for you. I'm not saying that to totally give up on her its just that you have other friends that you can turn too. I'm turning to my decision so I think I'm going to stop there. Please think about this very carefully. Hope I helped.
~Liza~
(Rating: 5) Thank you this helps plenty!
~queencece~