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im really confused right now. i went to be last night knowing that my boyfriend loves me im making good money and im doing good in school. but this morning i woke up and my heart, not like litterally like i was having a heart attack. but like someone had broken my heart and i was very confused and i havent really figured it out. its like all day i couldnt smile i couldnt find a reason too. when my boyfriend called me i was very short with him and kinda rude. and whenever he'd say he loves me i was just like o ya love you too. and thats not me. im usually totally lovey dovey. im really afraid he is going to think somehthink somethings up and i dont want him too because there isnt anything wrong with us at ALL. I just dont get it :-/. im really thinking its because my dads five year reunion is coming up not like a high school or friendship reunion but the reunion of his death. and it seems like its always harder when its a 1 year or 5 year or 10 year anniversary you know...so this year im really sad. this whole month has been horrible. everything i think about makes me cry music makes me cry, laughing makes me cry and work makes me cry. my heart hurts so bad its like aching...its horrible how do i make it go away...uhhhh what do i do? why do i hurt like this? gezze this sucks.........

I think that you're hurting because you don't feel complete. Having a boyfiend who loves you, making good money, and doing good in school is not enough for you. You're dad's dead and you miss him. That's regular. You're a person who expresses love, and you are thirsty for more. You can't take away the pain fully, but you sure can relieve it for as long as you want. You need to be around loved ones right now that are positive and that won't break you down. I'm sure if you're father were still alive, he wouldn't want to see his daughter hurting like this. You've got to stay optomistic, not only for your family or your father, but for yourself. That's the main thing that will help you recover. Keep your father in you heart, mind, body, and soul. Reminise over the good times you had with him. If you can't remeber it's o.k. Don't beat yourself up about it. Maybe you could ask your mother or someone else that was close to him, and talk over the goods things about your father. Don't push your boyfriend away. You both need eachother right now. If he's there to comfort you, you will have a good abundance of support, which will keep you going. Keep you head up, and try and think only good thought. You may not get it at first, but along the way you'll realized that you're dad wanted you to be happy. I hope I helped!

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(Rating: 5) thank you so much that did help! xoxo!
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