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I'm a raw and living foodest. For those of you who are unfamiliar with what that is I only eat foods that have not been cooked. I do this because it maintains all of the nutrients and enzymes intact and is much healthier. I'm not here to try to convert anyone. I think you can reach maximum health by eating all kinds of foods fixed all kinds of ways. This is simply my life choice. What I'm here to do is help educate people as to what is happening to thier food. Did you know that the pharmaceutical companies have lobbied to have a law voted on called "Codex Aimentarius" that will take away our freedom to take suppliments? It has already been implemented in Europe. Of course it is still ok for them to put steroids, antiboitics and harmones in our foods. Have you wondered why there is a great influx of people acting aggressively and out of character? I'm here to help guide you through this mess. If you want to eat meat...eat meat...just get chemically free meat. I'm here to help you understand what is happening to you.
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Last year I got in a lot of fights.(not fist fights but like curse fights online) So I kinda had a bad reputation. Well now this year I'm more girly and its my last year in my school then i go to high school so I'm trying not to have any fights this year. Well this girl in my grade who is mean to me but I'm not mean to her (i just get mad when she gives away my sn to strangers)she found out some how that I'm on advicenators. Well today she asked me a question a private one to me and she said my full name (first and last) and said that I pick on her and bully everyone. She also said that i take everything from her even the boy she liked that liked her. Now I have no clue what boy liked her that I liked/like. I just feel like I'm hated by everyone and no one likes me. And I don't know what to do to make myself cheer up. Wouldn't she be the bully now? What should I do? I feel so hated and unwanted.
First of all, you don't have to answer her question. You can simply delete it. Now as for her bullying you. She's picking on you because you were the bully last year. She senses that you are not the same person you were last year and is taking advantage of the situation. She may even think that you are deserving. She's getting back at you for what she perceives as the atrocities you inflicted on others. This is one of those situations where you kind of made your bed, so to speak. You can make it through unscathed though. One of the things I suggest you do is walk through the halls as if there is nothing bothering you at all. Have a big smile on your face and say hi to everyone. If there is something you can do to help someone, do it. Be so sweet sugar would melt in your mouth. After a while people will be talking about her. She will look pretty silly saying bad things about someone that is nice to everyone and always has a smile on their face. She is just venting. Words canâ??t hurt you unless you let them. So, you did some things last year that you regret. Move on. Be cheerful, delightful, pleasant and happy. You say you canâ??t because of the mean things people are saying? Yes you can. Your state of mind is totally up to you. You can choose to let these things bother you or you can choose not to. Now, I know you think that this will be difficult. At first it may be difficult. The thing is the more you practice being happy the closer to being happy you will become. Then all of a sudden you will find that people will be attracted to you and will want to be with you. You will have lots of friends and what a few people say about you will mean nothing. As a matter of fact at that point people will think badly of the people who are saying bad things about you. You will have to learn to roll with the punchs though. The reason is no matter what there will always be someone who will say something that is untrue about you. These people are usually unhappy themselves and they can't stand to see someone else having happiness in their lives. They will do whatever they can do to bring you down to their level. Don't let them do it. Don't even let their unhappy thoughts enter your mind. Just move on to your next project and don't give their mean accusations a moments thoughts. Good luck!
Namaste,
LULABELLE
(Rating: 5) omg your advice ocks thank you sooo much I'll try it♥