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A lot of my friends are very religious, and thus have many different beliefs (religiously, politically, and otherwise) than I do. Lets just say I cried on November 3rd last year (the day after), and they pretty much jumped for joy. Sometimes when I make a comment about issues that are happening in the world they look at me oddly, like I'm a complete idiot or something. They enjoy listening to Ashlee Simpson and the like while I listen to classic rock from the 60's and 70's. In the past this hasn't bothered me much, but lately its been nagging at me a lot. Don't get me wrong. I love my friends to bits, they're the nicest people and so fun to be around, but is it possible to love them as people and completely disregard how different their mentality is from you? Do your beliefs and interests dictate who you are as a person?
(Sorry if this question doesn't make much sense.)
Its still very very possible to remain friends with these people. Sure, some of it sucks because you can't really discuss politics or religion without someone chiming in something about "you must belive what I do" but if for the most part, you're still having fun with those people, stay friends!
You don't have to disregard how different their mentality is from yours. Its actually a good thing at times, because you get to see many different points of view and maybe you find one that makes perfect sense to you.
Personally, I'll hang out with people of all diffrent religions, political groups, and otherwise. So long as people aren't trying to change ME and try to change what I belive, its all good with me.
(Rating: 5) Makes sense :D