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but my friend is a chrisitan. He wants me to go to church with him every week, and im not all that enthusiastic. I feel guilty for even thinking about saying no because i get all self concious when i think of him thinking of me as a sinner. Anyways we were having a very good time at a footbal game and then we were talking about stuff and somehow the topic just came up about dying. He was like, no offense but if you died right now i think you'd go to hell. He was being really serious. Well, it depressed the hell out of me. Im a nice person, i dont try to judge people, i like to share, my morals are higher then anyone elses and then i get depressed because i cant live up to them. I was really hurt but i didnt let on. He wouldnt elaborate, he said we could talk about it on the phone sometime. Well, do you think it was right of him to say that? Or am i just being dumb? I cant help but feel like im some kind of 'project' hes trying to save...
The term "agnostic" means unsure of there being a God or unsure of a religion whether it be christianity, judaism, or other. Maybe your friend doesn't understand this. I am agnostic as well, and would rather religion not be brought up because I am trying to figure out whether I belive it or not, and nothing anybody says is going to belive one way or another, because I see points to both. Kindly let your friend know that agnostic doesn't mean the same as athiest (absolutely definitively does not belive in a God) and that you are not currently wanting to think about what will happen after you die or having to go to church. While many christians want to convert people because they belive that they can save both themselves and another way, you deserve to figure out your own religious standpoint without the "help" of your friend unless you ask for it. Your friend should understand, but this is a conversation you need to have with him. Good luck.
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