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Q: ok I love giving advice and have answered a lot of questions and always get ratings 5 or 4 for my advice but Ihave'nt been on the site for a long time like 6 months and I just got back on yesterday and gave some advice and someone gave me a 1 and the other gave me a 2 I'm pretty sure they didn't even finish reading what I had to say and once they saw something they didn't like stoped reading.Please help me can you look at my advice coumn and read through my advice and tell me if what I say is unreasonale and that I should stopgiving advice or what I have to say is honest but a bit hurtful.I rate 5's for all answers good or bad (but please be good lol)
Generally, when you go a few months without giving advice, your quality generaly diminished. I have taken 1 week breaks from my last site, and it usually took about 10-15 answers to get back into my groove.
It's also a lot of what kind of questions you answer. Like, I love mental health issues, just because I know so much about them. Mental health, suicide, cutting, those are my strengths. Yet, this site rarely has those types of problems, so when I do find one to answer, I have more difficulty answering it than I used to.
Just drop off in my inbox your column ID, and I'll take a look at it.
-Steven

ok it's scandalous3793 but read all my advice not just the first 2 cause those were the bad one's lol

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THE PENGUIN RULES ALL! AHAHAHAHAHAHA! *Cough*
Hello! My name is Steven, and I am a mentor. Yes, that does mean that I help other people. I have helped over 1000 people to date, and have helped some individuals for over 1/2 a year. The miracle of my life occurred 17 years ago. I say miracle only because 1/4 babies survive to be born.
I am the first born of 2 children, and I am also the black sheep. I listen to Classical Music, so you can call me a weirdo. :P. I have Obsessive Compulsive Disorder, so take no offense if my answers never seem to end.
In school, I get As and Bs. More Bs really. I play trombone, and was the section leader of the trombones at my school. This year, I am the captain of the entire brass section. I am an Eagle Scout, so I guess that says I'm persistant? You make the call. I am a 3 time varsity letter winner, looking for a 4th next winter. I also participate in the musical, where I am a Bass 2. :)
I am straight, and have never had a relationship beyond a friend. However, I have survived the bumps in the road, and can advise you if you wish it. Though, it's not my strength.
I'm here for you, and only you. That means that my advise will not always confort you. Heck, it may even scare you. Yet, I want you to do what is best for your mind. Not what is typically seen as best for you, but what YOU see best for YOU. Heck, if you wanted what was seen as best for you, you would've asked your parents what you should do. They give you what's typically best.
Alright, before I start getting tendinitis from writing that over and over again, I'll just say what I mean. I mean that if you ask me about something, let's say walking 10 miles a day, and I think it's rediculous, yet you are asking for something to do, I am NOT going to say "10 miles is the type of a thing a anorexia athletica would do. Try 5." I'll give you something to do.
Oh, and I'm a L1 moderator, which means I rate questions.

Don't hesitate to IM me, I'm usually on. If I'm not, just drop one in the Inbox!

Oh, by the way, I am liberal in everything. That means that abortion is a woman's RIGHT, and gay marriage should be LEGAL.

Ask away!
-Steven

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