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Q: Sometimes i feel like i want to die, i dont feel like miserable or anything and i dont want to die just for a way out, i feel kind of excited about death, like when i die i will be at peace with everything. isnt that what everyone wants inner peace and to live in eternal paradise? thats what i want? what are we waiting for?
I took it that you are thinking of this in a spiritual sense, so I'm going to be a bit spiritual on you here. :)
Peace and eternal paradise. I take that to be heaven. There is one reason why you should not die for that purpose. Well, multiple.
1st, if you are thinking of suicide, you are missing the commandment. Thou shalt not kill. This includes yourself. And you have no time to feel remourse and pray for forgiveness, because you are instantly dead and judged.
2nd, if you die quickly, you miss out the reward. Heaven is not the same for anyone. Bible passages say that people receive rewards for good deeds on earth, and they do not mean it in the sense that you will receive the reward of heaven. They mean that you will receive a heavenly reward that you cannot possibly imagine down here on earth.
And what determines that reward? Through your life, according to Paul, you build up an alter of hay, straw, wood, stone, gold, and precious metals (I think that's it...) You go to the judgement area, and it is tested with fire that will devour the hay, staw, and wood. It's an unforgiving fire. Then, based on what is left, Jesus, the judge, will give you the reward he most wants to give you, but for those that have nothing left, they receive nothing but happiness.
These are the things you did in your life. The hay are the sins, and the precious metals are the good deeds you've done (Like helping teens with problems. :) ). So, if you do reach eternal paradise, you'll have nothing and lose the reward that is potentially yours. Good deeds are greater in quantity over a longer period of time than a smaller quantity congested into a few years.
-Steven

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Alright, before I start getting tendinitis from writing that over and over again, I'll just say what I mean. I mean that if you ask me about something, let's say walking 10 miles a day, and I think it's rediculous, yet you are asking for something to do, I am NOT going to say "10 miles is the type of a thing a anorexia athletica would do. Try 5." I'll give you something to do.
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