MELiixMARiiE's advice column

You see, I have a crush on this guy. I've had one on him for 3 years now. I'm kind of sort of friends with him, but the only time I have the guts to talk with him is around my friend because she's friends with him, so I just follow and laugh at his jokes.

I'm not good at starting conversations, so I'm not sure how to get his attention. I don't want to be all like "I LIKE YOU." to him, because I did that for two years now. And my biggest fear is that he thinks I'm some sort of stalker-freak.

How do I get his attention? *feels like a fool* Thanks!

ok well..

whenever you talk to him next time, don't think of him as your crush of two years. Try to think of him as just someone that your talking too. And just be yourself. Whenever he's talking to your friend, make yourself a part of the conversation. Make a comment on what he said or share a memory or something. ( and sharing memories shows you can get personal with him, so that's good )..so just be yourself, and he'll like you for you. I mean, even if he doesn't like-like you at all, wouldn't it be better if you were his friend then back to nothing "stalker-freak"? So if not going for like-like, go for friend, cause then maybe someday.. I hope I helped!

Love,
MELii

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(Rating: 5) Thank you for the advice. The only bad thing is that I just heard today he likes my best-friend, which is kind of nerve racking...I'm kind of sad now but whatever. Thanks for the advice!

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