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this past summer i went to an over night camp.. im 15 1/2 and this 19 year old kid was there.. he was a couciler and i was a camper. i knew him previously because he's worked with my team during reg. season. this summer, however, i really fell for him.. and i think he has a thing for me too? even though hes WAY old but he would constantly flirt with me.. and he has a gf.. on MY TEAM thats 17 or 18.. he isnt from the u.s.. so hes not here now. but i talk to him all the time.. and he always wants to know why i like him or if only i was older.. and he hints little things like that.. once he even told me he loved me.. out of no where. of course i wanna believe he rly likes me.. but part of me has a feeling he just wants me to keep liking him.. like hes playing hard to get or something when i KNOWW hes out of any ideas at this time. i really have no idea whats going on. and im friends with his g/f. HeLp!!!!!!

Well it seems to me like he may just want you to keep on liking him if he keeps bringing up the subject on why you like him which may give him an ego boost or something and make him be like," Oh girls still think I'm hot even when I have a girlfriend!" ( or something like that ) or it could be that he actually does like you and just wants to know.. why him? =) But sorry, but it seems to me like it's the "keep you liking him" option. And it wouldn't really work out anyways because:

- your underage ( unless you two wanna wait..3 years.. )

- he has a girlfriend

- his girlfriend is friends with you, and you shouldn't do stuff like that to friends.. guys should never get in the way of friendships, because friends are always there when guys might not be

- he doesn't even live in the U.S anyway, so that'd be a really big long distance relationship and that'd be hard cause you'd never know what's going on ( what if he still dated your friend behind your back? =/ )

.. so really, it just doesn't seem like it's a good idea at all to try and do anything with him so i don't know, just next time you talk to him, ask him how he feels about you ( & if he says he really does, then he prob. does.. and the next time he asks the "why do you like me?" thing again, just ask him why he always asks that.. )
If you wanna talk to me more, pelase just IM me at:

MELii x MARiiE

... I hope I helped!






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MELii

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