Do you have a problem? Possibly. There is a thing out there which is an addiction to sex, and "Enjoying yourself" could be part of the cause, but I don't think so. Since it is only daily. If it was twice a day, maybe, but probably not once.
My advise to you is to try to stop enjoying yourself (Wow, that was weird...) for a week. Depending on how much you think on it that week, make a decision. Did you think of it 10% of the time, 30%, 50%, 75%, 100% of the time? If you thought too much, consider joining a sexaholics anonymous group (There are such things.)
Second, do not have sex until you are ready to assume all responsibilities. Assume that each time you have it, the girl is going to get pregnant, even if you wear protection. That prevents me. :)
But no shrink. I don't think they would do much for this issue. For others, maybe, but not this particular issue.
-Steven

EDIT: I received your feedback. If you still remember the number of times you've done it, you are not addicted. I'd say like twice a day for 2 years is about when you'd get addicted.

how many times would a person have to "enjoy themelves" to think they might have a problem. thanx for your response, and could you answer this one?

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I am the first born of 2 children, and I am also the black sheep. I listen to Classical Music, so you can call me a weirdo. :P. I have Obsessive Compulsive Disorder, so take no offense if my answers never seem to end.
In school, I get As and Bs. More Bs really. I play trombone, and was the section leader of the trombones at my school. This year, I am the captain of the entire brass section. I am an Eagle Scout, so I guess that says I'm persistant? You make the call. I am a 3 time varsity letter winner, looking for a 4th next winter. I also participate in the musical, where I am a Bass 2. :)
I am straight, and have never had a relationship beyond a friend. However, I have survived the bumps in the road, and can advise you if you wish it. Though, it's not my strength.
I'm here for you, and only you. That means that my advise will not always confort you. Heck, it may even scare you. Yet, I want you to do what is best for your mind. Not what is typically seen as best for you, but what YOU see best for YOU. Heck, if you wanted what was seen as best for you, you would've asked your parents what you should do. They give you what's typically best.
Alright, before I start getting tendinitis from writing that over and over again, I'll just say what I mean. I mean that if you ask me about something, let's say walking 10 miles a day, and I think it's rediculous, yet you are asking for something to do, I am NOT going to say "10 miles is the type of a thing a anorexia athletica would do. Try 5." I'll give you something to do.
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