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Q: alrighty this might be kinda of confusing but i need help now!sorry its goin to be long. okay first off im a 13/f and never hooked up with anyone yet! so i went out with this kid "ronnie" for abouit a week and i found out he never really liked me (long story) so that was back in may now i like a new kid named "jonnie" but "ronnie" likes me and today he told me he wanted me to sleep over his house ( im friends w/ his sister) to hook up...but no strings attached..what do i do? i kinda wanna just to get it over with and i kinda like him..do i hook up with him or not?

ILL rate 5 no matter what (unless its a smartass answer)
I'd advise you to go. He likes you, you kind of like him. Jonnie may not like you, yet you like him. You'd probably be much better off with a person who likes you than one whom you are not sure.
And I'm 16, and never hooked up yet, so don't use that for your decision. I'm perfectly fine with my love life. :)
-Steven

(Wow, that was probably the worst advise I've give in months. Worst as in poorly written. Sorry about that.)

actually it was pretty good...everyone else was like no dont and i like do so thanks!

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Hello! My name is Steven, and I am a mentor. Yes, that does mean that I help other people. I have helped over 1000 people to date, and have helped some individuals for over 1/2 a year. The miracle of my life occurred 17 years ago. I say miracle only because 1/4 babies survive to be born.
I am the first born of 2 children, and I am also the black sheep. I listen to Classical Music, so you can call me a weirdo. :P. I have Obsessive Compulsive Disorder, so take no offense if my answers never seem to end.
In school, I get As and Bs. More Bs really. I play trombone, and was the section leader of the trombones at my school. This year, I am the captain of the entire brass section. I am an Eagle Scout, so I guess that says I'm persistant? You make the call. I am a 3 time varsity letter winner, looking for a 4th next winter. I also participate in the musical, where I am a Bass 2. :)
I am straight, and have never had a relationship beyond a friend. However, I have survived the bumps in the road, and can advise you if you wish it. Though, it's not my strength.
I'm here for you, and only you. That means that my advise will not always confort you. Heck, it may even scare you. Yet, I want you to do what is best for your mind. Not what is typically seen as best for you, but what YOU see best for YOU. Heck, if you wanted what was seen as best for you, you would've asked your parents what you should do. They give you what's typically best.
Alright, before I start getting tendinitis from writing that over and over again, I'll just say what I mean. I mean that if you ask me about something, let's say walking 10 miles a day, and I think it's rediculous, yet you are asking for something to do, I am NOT going to say "10 miles is the type of a thing a anorexia athletica would do. Try 5." I'll give you something to do.
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Oh, by the way, I am liberal in everything. That means that abortion is a woman's RIGHT, and gay marriage should be LEGAL.

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-Steven

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