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Hey 'sup ya'll! My name is Anthony. I enjoy giving people advice. I like to help people with their problems or give them suggestions. You can ask me anything. But please type correctly, (no using internet slang, or abbreviations) because a lot of times questions can be misunderstood even by one word.
I will try to answer these questions the best I can. It will help if you inclued AGE, GENDER, and be VERY THOROUGH. I do specialize in topics in Growing up, Relationships, SOME Technology, SOME Religion, Physical Fitness, and Philosophy (if you have anything that you've been wondering or thinking about and you want to tell someone, tell me!)
Basically, I am the male, black/asian, rap fan, non-punk, -emo,or -gothic version of twistedsister17. So you can ask us both for different opinions.
Also, any answer I give, please note that these are merely SUGGESTIONS. You do not have to take my advice. And once again, I will try to answer the best I can.

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ok...there's this guy that i might hook up with but i'm still not sure that i will but he was asking me if we hooked up if i would ever have sex with him and i said i didnt know...i dont know what to do because i dont think im ready for sex yet and honestly im scared...i want to tell him that im not ready but i dont know how he will react..

I think that 14 is WAY too young for sex in modern times (A long time ago, it is encouraged for someone your age to start a family!) But if you're not ready, then don't do it. Tell him that. He won't freak out, he'll just be like "Oh, ok..." And that's about it. Now, please wait, because, there are so many teen pregnantcies, and a lot of these young mother's don't want the child, so the child get's aborted. Or all of these STDs that go arond. You shouldn't have to go through that drama.

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(Rating: 5) thanks for your advice.

- melisa
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