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I posted this to a single person, before I knew it could be answered by anybody with an account;
I am a 17 year old male, and came across your site by accident, or possibly fate. I have a big social problem. I've always been described as "the different one". I was always the one who did his work in class, or didn't do things exactly the same way as everybody else. I was just different like that since primary school. (I'll just say at this point that I'm not gay. A lot of people ask that when you say you're "different") The problem is, I've never been able to shake certain difficulties I've had as a result of being unusual. So now I find myself at 17; I've never been to a party where I've drunk. I've never been kissed. I've never had a girlfriend. Nobody knows who I am, nobody seems to care. I find it difficult to make friends, because I feel socially awkward, because everybody expects me to know things that I don't, because I never developed those social skills. Most of the friends I do have are the poisonous kind. They will be friendly some days, but only because it benefits them. At other times they seem totally unfriendly. I feel like I'm tied into keeping them, because it's not as easy as just pretending they don't exist, and if I alienated them, then I wouldn't have anybody left.
I don't want to become "normal" (if that exists as something to become), I would just like to know how I can fit better into the social structure of school life, and develop general social skills. I feel like I got expelled from the school of social interaction as a kid, and now I've found out there's no adult ed. class.
Thanks,
SilentOne (link)
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ok. Mr. silent one. i dont see the drunk thing as a bad thing, Nore the girlfriend or the kiss. Just you dont like any of the girls around. send me the link to that website. oh and Maybe your just she. IF YOU SERIOUSLY WANT TO FIT IN REMEMBER THIS
**THE BEST WAY TO FIT IN IS TO STAND OUT***.
AT my school im know for haveing a million odd talents(fyi i have few enimies). I can do magic/card tricks, make ballon animals, awesome at basketball, am exteamly smart, etc.. but the point is use what your good at to make yourself stand out and then people will notice you. oh and maybe you dont have friends because you wont let yourself get close to people. idk. hope i helped
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Rating: 5
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Not perfect, but close enough. Maybe I'll do a little to offset any twits who give you an "I HAT YOU" rating of 1...
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