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My friend && I like the same guy. He just happens to have feelings for me. I really want to get together with him but wouldn't that be betraying my best friend? What should I do?

these situations can be tricky sometimes. i usually wouldn't recommend leaving your friend over a guy, but maybe you two can work this out. I'm glad you're concerned about her feelings.

you have to talk to her about this. if he has feelings for just you, then she may get jealous. it wouldnt exactly be betraying her, since he doesnt belong to her, but she likes him, and since he doesn't like her, that can run into some major problems.

talk to her, and ask her if it would be okay if you and the boy were together or something. if she says its okay, make sure shes telling the truth. let her know that you would never choose a guy over her or hurt her feelings over one.

All in all, if you don't want to go through all of this, you could just wait for the next guy! But this experience should show both of you where you stand when it comes to liking the same guy. Hope this helps!

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