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okay heres the story. my best friend cut really bad at the end of 7th grade(were in 8th now) and over that summer. the school, both friends and the administration, was aware but she never really got any kind of help. seh always carved peoples names who had hurt her or someone who was really important to her. okay this has to coem out to. shes bi so these people are girls. one was a best friend who stopped being friends with her another was a girlfriend and one is an x girlfriend. okay sorry that was kind of irrelevent. but anyway she got a lot better after this girl broke her heart. (i know you would think she would get worse) anyway she only cut maybe three times the whole school year. i stopped really worrying about it. but then in the past week she did it really bad. only me and this other girl who cuts too knows about it. before i always could see how unhappy my best friend was but this time i couldnt really understand. nothing really drastic happened and she seemed to be doing a lot better in recent months. okay heres my dilema. she siad not to tell anyone and if i did she would know it was me and not talk to me again or at least be extremely pissed. and i know shes not lying no matter how much i mean to her. now i want to get her help but i dont know how. i dont know if she can be helped with the additude she has now.
so: do i speak up and if so who should i tell?
what would be the best help to get her?
please give me any ideas. im open to anything. and dont waste youre time if youre going to be an ignorant a** like some people on this thing.
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ok. my girlfriend used to cut and i know cutting is bad and anyone who does it needs help. But getting people to acept help is hard. If you want to keep her friendship try writing her a note about it and have her write back. Srategicly get a teacher to confenskate the note. You can do this many ways. One is if you have a really cool teacher talk to her about it and the whole situation and get her to "take" the note and have her give it to the guidence counciler. Another way is to "accidentally" leave the note in a classroom and have one of the teachers find it and give it to the school counciler to get her help. ANYONE WHO CUTS PLEASE STOP!!!! you will be much happier. If you dont believe me ask my girlfriend--horsesare666es
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well thats a good idea but we dont have any classes together
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