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ive been going out with my boyfriend for a while now but he hasnt told his parents at all so they dont know about us but i think they know something because all of a sudden me and him started hanging out a lot more and so the other day at our track meet his mom was spying on him and since it was cold outside we were sitting pretty close and he was holding me and his mom got all upset and was yelling at him i dont know what to do because i dont want him to keep gettin in trouble for being with me he says he doesnt care because all he wants is to be with me and his parents dont want him to date until he is 16 but he is already and has had girlfriends before me but none have been as serious as ours is now and i think he should tell his parents but i dont want his parents to make us break up because we really love eachother please help -- should he tell his parents about us-- sorry its so long!! x0o (link)
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Well, considering the seriousness of your relationship, being on good terms with his parents is probably a good idea. And if they're going to be mad if/when they find out you've been dating despite the fact that they don't let him date, it could make for problems. So yes, I do think he should seriously consider telling them.
However, you're probably right in thinking that his parents may very well tell him he can't date you. Maybe you could compromise? Like set parameters for your dates- just group dates, or hanging out at his house when they're home, stuff like that- yes, it isn't ideal, but you wouldn't have to end the relationship. And who knows, you may still be together when you're 16, and then you'll be glad you can still date.
May I ask how old you are now? You didn't say, and I was wondering how many years away your bf is from 16.
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Rating: 5
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were both 14 but really close to turning 15 so we dont have to wait that much longer
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