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Me and my brother are very close hes always there for me and I am always here for him..I am 15 and he is 20 and he just got this new girlfriend and we got along for a while but We ended up fighting and I beat her ass and my brother chose her over me...I told her i didnt want to fight her cause she is my girl but she pushed me and I poured my heart out to my brother asking him how can he choose her over me..Well he lives here and his gf is here everyday me nad her are cool now but I dont feel close to my brother like i did before I dont htink I ever can again. He always told me I was his world. and now this girl is comming between us. What should I do? I dont think i should just forgive him..he rreally hurt me I was in tears for hours the rest of the night and now he is acting like nothing even happend..Should I just say fuck him or forgive him? How can she come between me and my brother?!

Don't let his new girlfriend come between you and your brother. You have to know that she may be special to him, but he loves you more than her times 1000. He even told you that you were his world, which really means a lot. Yeah, you should be upset with him because he chose her over you, but don't let that affect your bond. Many siblings would die just to have the connection that you and your brother have. Don't throw it all away just because a new girl came into his life. Talk to him alone without his girlfriend there in the conversation. Tell him that it hurt you. Tell him that you don't want her to come between you guys why they are still dating, and tell him that you still want to have the same connection that you guys had before he had his new girlfriend. I know things won't be the same now that he will be sharing time with both of you, but all 3 of you could go out to where you guys like to hang out and have fun. Who knows, she might be into what you and your brother are into. Remember, try to regain that connection with him that is lost, and talk to him explaining how you felt towards his actions, and why he did what he did. I hope I helped!

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(Rating: 5) Thanks for the really good help!!!!!!!!
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