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I`m Allison .. But everyone calls me Allie. I`m fourteen years old. I`m a freshman at MHS. I know I`m young, but so far in life I`ve experienced a lot. There`s a whole other part of me that a lot of people don`t know .. even some of my closest friends.
Friends are important to me. If you don`t have friends .. who can you rely on?!
If your a bitch to me I`ll be a bitch to you. It`s that simple. If your nice to me .. I can be one of the nicest people you`ll ever meet. I tend to hold grudges, but if you are sincerly sorry, I forgive easy.
I hate labels and stereotypes .. They really don`t make sense to me. Clothes shouldn`t label a person .. they`re personality should.
Anyways ..
I`m usually really good at giving advice. If you ask a stupid question .. Guess what !? You`ll get a stupid answer !
Other than that .. ask away !
♥ Allie.

advice

I'd appreciate some direct ways to say something to my bf of over a year.

we'd been talking and he needed a float loan of $800 for a few days to help with a mortgage approval. that is ok. but when he called about it, i mentioned the fact that one of my friends saw his updated ad on match.com, that it hurt my feelings, he knows it hurts my feelings, i care about him a great deal, and i thought we were over and done with that BS months ago. His reply was... can we talk later? can I call you later? I said 'are you gonna call me later?' and he said yes. I said ok and we hung up. I know his style and he'll probably test the waters in a few days and then never mention it again.

Guys... just help me say no more, clearly in a way that he doesn't just shut down. Thanks.
ps... me f/39 and him m/35

if you forgive him hes just going to put you through all of this BS again. tell him that if he cant talk about whats up with him then you cant keep a relationship with him. hope i helped!~allie

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(Rating: 5) thank you... it's true I can't keep seeing him. just hard to actually say it. I have to stick to my guns on this one. enough is enough. I appreciate the support - thanks!
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