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there is this boy and we went out over the summer, but a day before shcool started abck we broke up. We havent talked in almost 6 months and i still like him. He has a girlfriend, but he stares at me and all sometimes. I want to write him a note and tell him that i still like him, but i dont know what all to say. Anyone got any ideas? i rate high!!


I'm a strong proponent of friendship. I wouldn't push anything romantic right away, but there's no reason you can't hang out as friends. I would start by finding a handful of friends - boys and girls - and invite him and his girlfriend to hang out with all of you sometime.

I'd write a note that said something like "Hi! I know we haven't spoken much/at-all since school started, and I'd like to change that. Would you and your girlfriend be interested in hanging out with this-chick, that-dude, a-few-other-people, and I after school on friday? We were thinking about getting milkshakes and hanging out in the park" That way he can write back and say "sure! I've missed hanging out with you too", or "I'm busy on friday, what about going with a group of my friends to the mall saturday afternoon?". He may also just not answer, which probably means that either he's not interested or his girlfriend doesn't like the idea.

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(Rating: 4) thnxz. im goin to try but me and his girlfriend dont get along at all so i dont know! haha
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