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ok me and my boyfriend have been going out for about 7 months now, and we really love each other. i'm 15 and he is 16, and going to be 17 next month. he thinks everything is perfect in our relationship and i feel the complete opposite. like we will go out and it will be the most amazing time ever, but then he finds someone to completely ruin the magic of it all. like he will go somewhere and wont talk to me or lie about what he did etc. ( i know he lies sometimes but i dont tell him i know ) he always asks me why im upset and i just say im not and he always asks me why i dont tell him things and its because everytime i call him to talk to him about something he asks me to call him back and i have gotten so fed up with it i just dont call back anymore and then he like freaks out.. and he has been lying to me about him smoking.. and all he does is hang out with his friends.. he talks about them non stop, like i dont know if he wants me to be jealous or what.. but i guess its kind of working.. i dunno, how can i talk to him ? am i being selfish ?

- i dont want to break up with him though, i mean, i really love him, and i almost feel like i am being stupid for putting up with all that i am, but i dont know, please help :( i'll rate high

well i think you should confront him about the lying. tell him you know he is lying to you and u wanna know why. then talk to him about him smoking .. tell him you dont think he should do it but do everything in a loving way. And as for him with his friends all the time, just tell him you want to spend a little time with him and not all his friends. Hope this all helped you. lemme know how things go!

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(Rating: 5) i will try talking to him, but the thing is i have and he still denied it, i'm just really hurt.. but with his friends thing.. am i being too selfish ?

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