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Ok so there's this guys Shawn, and he doesn't live here. We have been off and on since the summer, and i'm so insecure about the relationship because all the other guys i've been with have been pricks. I never see him so i dont consider it a relationship..and i can't just be friends with him because i have stronge feelings for him, and it's not going to work ever again. But it hurt's so much when i see him sign on or talk or think about him. He was the first real guy that accepted my eating disorder and my cutting habbits. I need to get over him because i don't wanna feel this weay anymore. But everytime i try it feel's as if i can't feel the same way with another guy. I'm thinking of deleting his s.n and getting ride of anything that has to do with him..taking him out of the picture completley. (Because if he really loves me then he'll be there later in life, right?) What do you think?

Well don't give up all hope with this guy. He obviously means so much to you and was such a big part of your life. You shouldn't just try to forget about someone who totally understood you. You don't find a person like that very often. And if it's meant to be, then you two will find a way to get back together eventually. Until then, try to find somebody else that you get along with. But I don't think you should get rid of everything that reminds you of him or has to do with him. Maybe hide everything that reminds you of him in a place that you'll never really see it. But in time, you'll get better. Trust me. I've had the same experience.

♥ Always,
Maria

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(Rating: 5) Thanks you helped alot -- Everyone else was telling me to get help for my eating disorder and cutting when i already did, your right thanks i just get so caught up in ti sometimes i need a second opinio and yours was great!

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