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Ok so there's this guys Shawn, and he doesn't live here. We have been off and on since the summer, and i'm so insecure about the relationship because all the other guys i've been with have been pricks. I never see him so i dont consider it a relationship..and i can't just be friends with him because i have stronge feelings for him, and it's not going to work ever again. But it hurt's so much when i see him sign on or talk or think about him. He was the first real guy that accepted my eating disorder and my cutting habbits. I need to get over him because i don't wanna feel this weay anymore. But everytime i try it feel's as if i can't feel the same way with another guy. I'm thinking of deleting his s.n and getting ride of anything that has to do with him..taking him out of the picture completley. (Because if he really loves me then he'll be there later in life, right?) What do you think?

I think you would be making a really big mistake if you shut him out. Your eating disorder must be really hard for you, and I can't say that I know how you feel like other people because I don't. This guy, as you said, is the only guy who has acceoted your eating disorder and still likes you. You don't find many guys like that who are caring and are there for you every step of the way. Also, you can't count on the future or if he'll be there later in life because what if you won't. Even if you try to avoid the negative perspectives, they might be true. If you think that your relashionship is meant to be, then go for it even if you guys barely see eachother because the love will still be there. Many couples take on tough relashionships like this, and you guys have got to be one of those couples. I wish you the best of luck, and hope that you make the right decision. If you have any questions or concerns, send me a message in my inbox, and I will answer them ASAP!

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(Rating: 5) Thanks, he's not interested anymore..its so hard to be friends too knowing that we had something more and it cant be there anymore
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