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I'm Rachel... 19 year old college student. I'm majoring in Elementary Education :) I'm a Christian. I LOVE everything Performing Arts- especially Broadway Musicals. I'm lifeguard and Red Cross WSI certified. My favorite de-stressing pastime is knitting. My favorite color is purple. My hair is frizzy and my smile is bright. God Bless!

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Well, me and my friend have been friends like forever. WE are bestfriends and our families are extremly close. Well, she has tried braking the relationship every month and 3 or 4 times a month. I am sick of it!! And starting to get sick of her fighting. She can be oh so nice and OH SO mean. We only fight online because she doesn't want to fight in person. I think she might want the relationship to end but I really don't know. She says she will always come back to me every time we fight but sometime I think she won't. I really don't want to lose her but maybe the next time we fight this may be the end to our relationship. I need some advice with that. She used to say how I get all the guys, and how I am not pretty, and also how I copy her, and junk but like I don't understnad her. I have tried not telling her more close things so if we do lose the relationship she won't really have anything to say to anyone about my secrets. But Like I need help on what to do with her..... (link)
Maybe talking online is the problem. You said that's when she picks fights. So one way to end the fights would be to stop having conversations online. Block her on your msn or aim or whatever, and just talk to her in person or on the phone. (Do this delicately, though, or else she might take offense... but if you explain that you'd rather just talk on the phone and see her at school and stuff, it might be okay)

Just a thought. The other advice about not being friends with someone who's mean to you is good too... it's up to you which route you choose to take. Good luck!


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